Some research on the psychological problems experienced by parents and influence the actions of torture and mistreatment of children or can be differentiated as follows:
- Mental Disorder or Personality Disorder
- Depression
- Drug Addicts / Alcoholics
- Marriage Problems
Mental Disorder or Personality Disorder
Rose Cooper, a researcher named Thomas who conducted research on the relationship between mother and child, found that mothers who experience a mental disorder Schizophrenia (with a tendency indifferent behavior), it tends to produce a child whose behavior is rebellious, wicked, distorted, or even anti-social . But instead some are withdrawing their children to be like, passive, dependent and less tractable. Other researchers also found that mental disorders result in a disruption of the mother of the child's identity development.
The same discovery also revealed that the Obsessive Compulsive disorder experienced by the elderly is closely related to their attitudes toward child neglect. Therefore, Obsessive Compulsive disorder makes it a lot more people thinking about and doing rituals on the responsibility of raising children.
Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy
Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy (MSbP) is a mental disorder that is usually experienced by women, in this case a mother to her child (usually in infants or children under age 6 years) and usually result in the child must get serious treatment in the hospital. The disease was first described by Meadow in 1977 was detected pathological elements that lie in the everyday life of the mother since the first until now.
In severe cases, the children are constantly exposed to situations that threaten the safety of his soul, and the mother are doing from the outside it looked gentle and sincere. Dangerous mental disorder that can result in the death of his son because in many cases it was found that the mother's heart to lock up (or stifling) and poisoning the child as evidence of the doctor that her son was really sick.
Indeed, in these cases are often found in the history of antisocial behavior disorders in the mother, who caused his own experience of parenting is one of the parents first. In other cases there is evidence that in fact the mother had somatic disorders such as for example (in medical terms) neurotic disorders, hypochondria, or other disorders that are false). It was also found that mothers who would do this to his son was experiencing a severe personality disorder.
Depression
Another study conducted by Chaffin, Kelleher and Hollenberg (1996) on children whose parents have depression or psychopathology. According to them, parents who are depressed often found physical abuse against their children. Their children also reported experiencing problems such as depression, interpersonal problems, bizarre behavior and having problems at school or in the study.
Drug Addicts / Alcoholics
Families that alcoholics tend to be more unstable and unpredictable behavior. Any rule can be changed at any time, and often easy to deny the promises ever made. Similarly, the upbringing of the child's parents. Parenting often fickle applied inconsistently, and there is no room for family members to express their feelings as it is because of the restrictions and prohibitions to discuss â € œkeburukanâ €? family.
Therefore the other members is required to keep secret so that no involvement of outsiders and so that no one knows their family problems. This situation of course makes the depression, frustration, anger, discomfort and anxiety in the hearts of his children. Often children think they have done something wrong that caused the parents have a bad habit. As a result, distrust, difficulty expressing emotions appropriately, and the difficulty of close social relationships and true, an issue that carried over into adulthood. According to research some of the experts, the children of these families are more at risk to develop the habit alkoholismenya in adulthood than children from families who are not alcoholics.
According to research Chaffin, Kelleher and Hollenberg (1996), drug addicts are reported to be the most common factors considered to be the cause of abuse and neglect of children and do not care which way is right or wrong.
Marriage Problems
One of the greatest happiness in life is to feel warm and full of affection from people who are loved. But everyone can not always feel this way, especially if they are in families experiencing complicated issue that affects not only the family harmony, but the impact to the emotional lives of its members.
As a result, each family member feel the increasing burden of mental or emotional stress continuously increases from day to day. This mental burden will be heavier in families that the atmosphere seemed tense, as in the grave, no one has dared to express emotions and thoughts, and no discretion to act. None of this openness will only increase the tension of each family member.
In general, young child which is a victim of an outlet of tension, anxiety, resentment, anger and all negative emotions that can not be excluded. Why children are weak position, depending on the parents and helpless, so easily become the target of aggressiveness parents without providing resistance. As a result, in some cases physical violence against the children of parents just because their parents can not control his emotions encouragement.
The experts who adhere to understand systems theory holds, that is true, if people see a child that seems problematic, whether it's adjustment problems, learning problems or other issues, which have sought to know the actual cause is not in itself the source of the child, but rather on parents and the interactions that occur within the family. Because, the real problem child is a sign of irregularities in the family relationship itself. So, the problems displayed by children represents a dysfunction that occurs in family life.
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